• Important tips for white women who are in love with a married black man Posted by Admin

    A lot of white women these days are open to the idea of dating a black man which is a big contrast to 20 years ago where interracial relationships were not socially acceptable. When people saw an interracial couple in the street, they were often greeted with the disapproving look but things have changed now and society is more minded, however, in certain circumstances, most white women find themselves falling head over heels in love with a black man who is married. When this happens what should they do? Here are a few important tips for white women who are in love with a married black man.

    1. Try to not sacrifice yourself for the man:

    It is very important for every woman out there black or white to think the exact same way a man would think if they want to be happy in their love life. There are not many men out who are ruining their lives because of the woman in their life because there is this idea that most men do not put their love life first especially if they are looking to succeed in life. This is part of the reason why most men look happier than women because love is blind and millions of women everywhere are willing to change locations, leave family and friends behind, drop out of school or even put future plans on hold for the sake of a man. This is the wrong way to go by things even if the guy is not married to anyone, however, if he happens to be married, this can be a kick in the teeth. It is a massive blow because as a woman in love, you are giving up a piece of yourself for a person who is always taken. Over time it will make you resentful which is never a good thing. Look at the man for what he is and if he is telling little white lies just to keep around, it is time to re-evaluate the interracial relationship you have.

    2. You can leverage the relationship:

    If you can somehow better your lifestyle in the process like have the man pay for your bills, buy you a car or a home, fund your trips and buy you expensive gifts, when things go south and not working anymore, you will at least have something to show for the time spent together. It can be seen as cruel in the eyes of other people but if he is playing you along while he is married, that is a good way to get back at him.

    3. Stay true to yourself:

    You have to be really honest with yourself when dealing with a married man because if he is still married to his wife, he has no plans to leave her. Many men have the tendency of dating a woman until she starts to expect more from him then he leaves her for another. The cold hard truth is most guys will take a woman for a ride for as long as they allow him to hence why you have to be true to yourself so that you are not seen as doormat.

  • How to save money on your quest to finding interracial love Posted by Admin

    The one thing that most people don’t understand is going on a bad date is very harmful to their bank account or finances. Finding love is not cheap at all especially in this day and age we live in however, worry not, here are some very useful interracial dating tips to help you not break the bank when looking for interracial love.

    I.Always be 100% honest when creating your online profile

    The internet is the one place where people are meeting their potential partners these days and it is very important to ensure that your online profile reflects who you really are as a person. While many people want to appear as the best version of themselves online, a few white lies here and there can lead to a disappointing date when you do meet up with potential matches. Saying you are a football fan for example while you haven’t watched a single game or understand the sport can lead to a terrible date where you listen to your date go on and on about their favorite team. If you are upfront about the things you dislike and like, they less likely you will be on a date with someone you are not compatible with.

    II.Always look for people who are compatible with you

    It is good to be matched up with people who share the same interests as you because it makes for wonderful conversations when you meet up, however, if you are compatible that is even better. If you and your date share the same traits as far as personality is concerned, the chances of having a good date are very high. Look beyond the same taste in music, food, and movies, if you have similarities in lifestyle sparks will fly very quickly.

    III.Know each other for at least a week before arranging a date

    One of the best things about online interracial dating is you get the chance to speak to someone for a while before you actually meet them. Although your opinion about them might change when you get to meet them in the flesh, it is always worth building a rapport about any potential dates. This lets you know if you will have a good conversation in person with them or not. If you cannot get more than 2 words out of your date when you message them it is best to keep it moving and take the party elsewhere.

    IV.Speak on the phone

    Arranging a phone call with your potential date is also a wonderful way to that can help you save a fortune on your quest to finding interracial love. Text messages alone are not enough for you to make a judgment on whether you and the person you are speaking with have a connection or not, a 10-minute phone call does. Hearing a person’s voice on the other line can put you at ease and answer the questions whether you are compatible or not.

  • Benefits of dating an interracial partner Posted by Admin

    Mixed-race dating and marriages are becoming more and more common every day. However, this wasn’t the case a few decades ago. Richard and Mildred Loving were thrown in jail for getting married because Richard was a white man while Mildred was a black woman. They decided to stand up against this bias and had to sacrifice a big portion of their lives fighting against the system. In the year 1967, a law was passed which made interracial marriages legal all over the United States and banned any laws that existed opposing this.

    Interracial dating is a beautiful thing. You date each other for love but end up learning so much more than you initially had thought. We have made a list of benefits of dating an interracial partner to remind you of little things that you may have overlooked.

    1. LOVE

    The main reason for dating anyone and wanting to spend time with them is because you like them. Love doesn’t happen based on the color of the skin. However, it does play a role in the relationship where the couple decides whether race becomes a positive aspect of the relationship or a negative one.

    2. CULTURE

    When you start dating someone from another ethnicity or race, you also start learning about their traditions and moral values. Every culture is different than the next one. That’s what makes it beautiful and special. Being able to share traditions and values from your culture with the person you love is a beautiful experience.

    3. INTOLERANCE

    We all think that we know what racism is. We are aware of the stories in the news. Thinking that someone is inferior to you because their skin color is different than yours is a horrible way to judge someone. When you date someone who belongs to a different race and background, you start to hear stories and see things from their point of view. It will prove very beneficial for you and help you look at things from a fresh point of view.

    4. FRIENDSHIP

    You start to share things with your partner when you are in a biracal relationship . One of the many things that you share is your friends. It is very common for couples to introduce their partner to their good friends. A lot of the times, your partner will develop a good rapport with one of your friends or vice-versa. It is an amazing feeling to know that your dear friend gets along with your partner. Another important aspect is that you also learn about different cultures and educate yourself.

    5. COMFORT

    Stepping out from your comfort zone and meeting people from different cultures or backgrounds can be scary. But, it is also one of the most beautiful things that you will do in your life.

    Dating someone from a different race certainly does have its challenges. But it also has its fair share of positive aspects. Making friends and being in a relationship with someone from another culture or race will not only teach you a lot but it will also beautify you as a person and help you expand your horizon.

  • Issues in European Interracial Dating That Have to Be Addressed Posted by Admin

    Interracial dating is a fairly common thing, right? After all we’ve outgrown all the prejudice and racism of the 1960s. Racist groups and people tend to keep to themselves while a more tolerant majority generation voices their diverse opinions.

    Well yes…and no. While it’s true we’ve made tremendous progress in the last 20 years, some prejudices remain, even in the mainstream. Some of these attitudes may be spread by hate groups or controversial political figures. But then again, there are also more subtle racist attitudes.

    You may wonder what does my country think of racism now?

    A recent article in MNIAlive suggested that interracial dating is / was more of a scandal in the UK than in the United States, because the media depiction of black culture hasn’t been entirely positive. Some families (or interracial couples) have been shown as disadvantaged, or dysfunctional, in contrast to “normal” same race relationships, or at least that’s what the author has observed.

    The author also writes that the United States media has recently shown more favourable depictions of black and other minority families on TV and in movies; in positions of power, with happy families, and married happily to interracial partners. The author suggests that black-owned media organisations in the U.S., may be partly to credit, with channels like BET, Ebony and Essence, whereas UK media may not benefit from the same influence.

    In closing, the article suggested that multiculturalism is more accepted now in the UK than in past years because people simply have had more time to learn, tolerate and accept differences. While the MNI Alive article was surprising, a recent article at the Irish Times was even more controversial, since it suggested that within Ireland, a sense of Patriarchy (as in Irish men owning Irish women) still exists and it may perpetuate subtle or even overt feelings of racism.

    The easy answer is, of course, that there is no universal feeling of how a country feels about racism. As individuals, as lovers of freewill and fairness, we must become more enlightened. We must not only “tolerate” interracial dating and marriage (which yes, does include sexual experimentation), but must encourage other people to follow their heart and date whomever they want.

    Remember that there are degrees of racism. Some views are strong and blatantly offensive, while others are more annoying and stereotyping. However, it serves no purpose to get offended and cut off family members of friends for making a mistake. Instead, take the opportunity to teach others why stereotypes are wrong and why people believe them. A little negotiation and patience can go a long way in perpetuating more positive relations with all our friends and neighbours.

    You have a great opportunity right now to go and find an attractive partner, of any race or ethnicity you want, and see what happens. You can use an app and search locally or even do a more niche-oriented search, with keywords or shared mutual interests. The whole world awaits you so start reaching out to others and see what you find.

  • The Perfect Anniversary Gifts for Interracial Couples Posted by Admin

    Anniversaries are special occasions where interracial couples celebrate their love for each other. If you’re struggling to think of what to do for your anniversary with your partner of another race, here are a few cute interracial dating ideas.

    1. No-Cost Video

    This one is for the lover on a budget. No money doesn’t have to mean that there’s no creativity. An easy way to brighten up your partner’s day is by making a video slideshow of all your best times together.

    Choose pictures from when you met to where you are today and show them in chronological order with captions of where and when each picture was taken. Pick your favorite love song and set it as the background music.

    If you post this on Facebook or send it to them privately during the day when they might be at work, it is guaranteed to put an instant smile on their face since they will be so surprised.

    2. An Engraved Lighter

    Have a bit more money to spare? Why not get them something that will last them a lifetime, just like your love.

    A good quality lighter like a Zippo can be custom engraved with both your initials as well as the date of your anniversary.

    Each time they light a cigarette or a fire they will be reminded of you and how lucky they are to have you.

    3. A Picture Locket

    Old-school never goes out of style. A cute heart locket that has tiny pictures of the two of you inside makes for a perfect romantic gift. You could go the extra mile and invest in a music box that has a picture in it for even more old-school charm that is sure to sweep your partner off their feet.

    4. A Travel Vacation

    This is even better if your partner is from another country. Say, for example, that you’re dating an African woman from Nigeria, but the two of you are living elsewhere.

    Why not surprise her with an all-expenses paid for vacation to her hometown where the two of you can see the sights and spend time with her family? It’s a great gift that shows her you are in it for the long haul.

    Even if you’re both from the same country, nobody will ever turn down a paid vacation with the one they love!

    5. Home-Made Dinner

    This one can be the most romantic experience of your life if done right. Get in touch with your roots by preparing your partner a traditional spread they won’t soon forget.

    If you’re Indian, surprise them with great curry, home-made naan, and all the other treats you can think of. If you’re Italian, show them exactly why your country is world-renowned for its amazing pasta.

    Spice up the décor by hanging fairy lights, making a comfortable sitting area, and waiting for them at home with a drink in hand.

    It will be one of the most unforgettable and romantic surprises of their life and it will make your anniversary of interracial dating a great one.